3/26/2026 Thur, ZOOM ONLINE meeting, 11:30-1:00 CT

Discussion Diva: Jen Bee

Title: The “When/Then” Game — How We Delay Our Own Lives

Things to Consider:

We’re going to explore the quiet bargains we make with ourselves:
When I lose the weight, then I’ll wear the clothes I love.
When I make more money, then I’ll finally rest.
When the kids grow up, then I’ll focus on me.
When my business feels “ready,” then I’ll show up.

These “when/then” statements seem harmless, but they’re actually how we postpone joy, connection, confidence, and our own worth.

In this conversation, we’re not trying to fix anything.
We’re simply naming the rules we’ve been living by—often unconsciously—so we can see how much of our life is waiting on a future version of us.

The value here is noticing the pattern:
Where are you putting your life on layaway?
What are you deferring until some imaginary milestone?
And what would shift if the “then” became now?